"Never say you know a man until you have divided an inheritance with him"
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The line works because it treats “knowing a man” as something measurable, not sentimental. Lavater, a theologian in an age obsessed with reading souls and cataloging virtues, is also quietly skeptical about how reliable public piety is. Inheritance brings out a theology of the self: what someone believes they deserve, what they think God (or fate, or Father) “meant” for them, how easily they can spiritualize greed as fairness. The subtext is grimly Protestant: the real proof of character shows up in stewardship and temptation, not in sermons.
It also smuggles in a social critique. In 18th-century Europe, inheritance was a mechanism of status preservation; splitting it was effectively negotiating power. Lavater’s warning is less about cash than about entitlement. Watch who turns grief into accounting, who weaponizes principle, who suddenly “remembers” old slights. Then you’ll know the man.
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Lavater, Johann Kaspar. (2026, January 18). Never say you know a man until you have divided an inheritance with him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-say-you-know-a-man-until-you-have-divided-22695/
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"Never say you know a man until you have divided an inheritance with him." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-say-you-know-a-man-until-you-have-divided-22695/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.








