"Ninety per cent of the world's woe comes from people not knowing themselves, their abilities, their frailties, and even their real virtues. Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves - so how can we know anyone else?"
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The subtext is a critique of the mid-century American fixation on outward competence and social performance. As a journalist, Harris is writing into a culture of roles - executive, spouse, citizen - where credibility is a costume and interior life is optional. His "real virtues" jab is especially sharp: even our goodness can be misread, weaponized, or abandoned if we can’t name it. Virtue without self-understanding becomes branding; frailty without self-understanding becomes excuse.
The final turn - "so how can we know anyone else?" - is less philosophical than diagnostic. It punctures the confidence behind gossip, ideology, and romantic certainty. If you’re opaque to yourself, your read on others is projection with better manners. Harris isn’t promising enlightenment; he’s warning that ignorance of the self scales up fast, from private confusion to social damage.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Harris, Sydney J. (2026, January 15). Ninety per cent of the world's woe comes from people not knowing themselves, their abilities, their frailties, and even their real virtues. Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves - so how can we know anyone else? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ninety-per-cent-of-the-worlds-woe-comes-from-131060/
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Harris, Sydney J. "Ninety per cent of the world's woe comes from people not knowing themselves, their abilities, their frailties, and even their real virtues. Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves - so how can we know anyone else?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ninety-per-cent-of-the-worlds-woe-comes-from-131060/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Ninety per cent of the world's woe comes from people not knowing themselves, their abilities, their frailties, and even their real virtues. Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves - so how can we know anyone else?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ninety-per-cent-of-the-worlds-woe-comes-from-131060/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












