"No, but women are saying, and they say, are you crazy? But because they've had children since they were 20 years old. I haven't. So I had a child when I was 43, and now he's really out with his friends"
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The subtext is a model's biography without naming it: a career built on youth, mobility, and visibility, where the "right time" to have a child is always complicated by work that rewards not being tethered. When she says "I haven't", it's both refusal and reality - an admission that choice and circumstance blur, especially for women whose bodies are their paycheck.
Then she delivers the payoff: "I had a child when I was 43, and now he's really out with his friends". It's a punchline that doubles as proof-of-concept. The kid isn't a symbol; he's fine, thriving, independent. Tiegs is selling an alternative script: motherhood as something you can enter later without forfeiting the future. The emotional register matters, too - not defiant rage, but breezy insistence. That's how this kind of cultural negotiation often happens: not through manifestos, but through a woman refusing to be shamed in the small talk.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tiegs, Cheryl. (2026, January 16). No, but women are saying, and they say, are you crazy? But because they've had children since they were 20 years old. I haven't. So I had a child when I was 43, and now he's really out with his friends. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-but-women-are-saying-and-they-say-are-you-117099/
Chicago Style
Tiegs, Cheryl. "No, but women are saying, and they say, are you crazy? But because they've had children since they were 20 years old. I haven't. So I had a child when I was 43, and now he's really out with his friends." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-but-women-are-saying-and-they-say-are-you-117099/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"No, but women are saying, and they say, are you crazy? But because they've had children since they were 20 years old. I haven't. So I had a child when I was 43, and now he's really out with his friends." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-but-women-are-saying-and-they-say-are-you-117099/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.








