"No, like I said, my dad was never really part of the tennis. His involvement around what I did with the tennis and with my mom and my grandparents was really not a part of my life"
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The phrase "part of the tennis" is especially telling. Most athletes would say "my career" or "my training". Connors turns tennis into a world with its own membership rules. His father isn’t merely absent from family life; he’s outside the central institution that shaped Connors, the arena where identity was forged and discipline was enforced. By naming "my mom and my grandparents" as the real infrastructure, Connors credits a matriarchal unit while also hinting at the strain that comes with being built by family: love that doubles as management, support that can also feel like pressure.
There’s also a quiet refusal of the standard sports-myth template. Fans and interviewers love a father figure - the coach, the disciplinarian, the dreamer. Connors rejects that narrative cleanly, almost impatiently, as if to say: don’t retrofit my life to match your expectations. The subtext lands as both wound and declaration. He’s protecting his own history, and he’s telling you where the authority in his story actually came from.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Connors, Jimmy. (2026, January 15). No, like I said, my dad was never really part of the tennis. His involvement around what I did with the tennis and with my mom and my grandparents was really not a part of my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-like-i-said-my-dad-was-never-really-part-of-133336/
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Connors, Jimmy. "No, like I said, my dad was never really part of the tennis. His involvement around what I did with the tennis and with my mom and my grandparents was really not a part of my life." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-like-i-said-my-dad-was-never-really-part-of-133336/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"No, like I said, my dad was never really part of the tennis. His involvement around what I did with the tennis and with my mom and my grandparents was really not a part of my life." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-like-i-said-my-dad-was-never-really-part-of-133336/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






