"No man can be held throughout the day by what happens throughout the night"
About this Quote
The intent is practical, even strategic. “Held” is the key word: not merely influenced, but detained, pinned down, made accountable on someone else’s timeline. She’s arguing for a kind of temporal sovereignty. Night can be messy, intoxicating, compromising, erotic, criminal, intimate. Day is where reputations are litigated. Stanford’s sentence slices the tie between the two, insisting that morning brings a reset not because morality has changed, but because power does. Daylight belongs to institutions: courts, newspapers, polite society, husbands, voters. Night belongs to the people who slip around those institutions.
The subtext has bite: anyone trying to “hold” you all day is invested in control, not truth. It also flirts with hypocrisy in a way Stanford would recognize. Society consumes the night’s thrills, then demands daytime contrition from the people closest to them. Her line refuses that bargain. It’s not innocence; it’s compartmentalization as freedom.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stanford, Sally. (2026, January 16). No man can be held throughout the day by what happens throughout the night. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-man-can-be-held-throughout-the-day-by-what-122244/
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Stanford, Sally. "No man can be held throughout the day by what happens throughout the night." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-man-can-be-held-throughout-the-day-by-what-122244/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"No man can be held throughout the day by what happens throughout the night." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-man-can-be-held-throughout-the-day-by-what-122244/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










