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Daily Inspiration Quote by Benjamin Disraeli

"No man is regular in his attendance at the House of Commons until he is married"

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Marriage, Disraeli implies, is Parliament's most effective whip. The line lands because it treats "regular attendance" not as a civic virtue but as a domesticated habit: a man starts showing up consistently only after his private life has been reorganized into routines, obligations, and the subtle surveillance of a spouse who expects something like steadiness. It's a joke with teeth, because it flatters the institution while quietly admitting the job often isn't compelling enough to hold a free man there on its own.

Disraeli knew the House of Commons as a theater of ambition and boredom, full of members whose loyalties were intermittent, whose presence was strategic, and whose careers ran on dinners, clubs, and patronage as much as speeches. The subtext is less "wives improve men" than "domestic life disciplines vanity". Marriage becomes a social technology that converts a political amateur - drifting in for big debates, disappearing into London society - into a reliable cog. That sting matters coming from Disraeli, a master of political management who understood that institutions run on schedules, not just ideals.

There's also a gendered wink typical of the era: politics is a masculine arena, but the force that makes it function is feminized and offstage. He turns a Victorian moral expectation (marriage as stabilizer) into a pragmatic observation about governance. The wit works because it sounds like praise for responsibility while smuggling in cynicism about what actually motivates it: not duty to the nation, but the quiet pressure of home.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Disraeli, Benjamin. (2026, January 17). No man is regular in his attendance at the House of Commons until he is married. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-man-is-regular-in-his-attendance-at-the-house-34774/

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Disraeli, Benjamin. "No man is regular in his attendance at the House of Commons until he is married." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-man-is-regular-in-his-attendance-at-the-house-34774/.

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"No man is regular in his attendance at the House of Commons until he is married." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-man-is-regular-in-his-attendance-at-the-house-34774/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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Benjamin Disraeli

Benjamin Disraeli (December 21, 1804 - April 19, 1881) was a Statesman from United Kingdom.

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