"No matter how famous and established they were or however blessed they were with great songs or long careers, if they lived alone, they lived alone. That's not the way I wanted to live prior to the tour or after"
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The context matters because touring is the industry’s most efficient loneliness machine. It’s structured intimacy with strangers and structured distance from anyone who actually knows you. You’re surrounded every night and missing home every morning. Brickell is also quietly pushing back against the rock-and-roll script that treats solitude as a badge of artistic seriousness. Here, living alone isn’t romantic; it’s an outcome that can happen even to the "blessed", which is her sly way of saying it isn’t about merit. It’s about logistics, incentives, and the way work colonizes a life.
Subtext: she’s choosing a different definition of success, one that can’t be measured in ticket sales. The quote reads like a preemptive boundary-setting before a tour - a reminder that the job can be thrilling without becoming the organizing principle of existence. Brickell isn’t moralizing; she’s naming the trade-off and refusing to pretend it’s glamorous.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brickell, Edie. (2026, January 15). No matter how famous and established they were or however blessed they were with great songs or long careers, if they lived alone, they lived alone. That's not the way I wanted to live prior to the tour or after. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-matter-how-famous-and-established-they-were-or-141299/
Chicago Style
Brickell, Edie. "No matter how famous and established they were or however blessed they were with great songs or long careers, if they lived alone, they lived alone. That's not the way I wanted to live prior to the tour or after." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-matter-how-famous-and-established-they-were-or-141299/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"No matter how famous and established they were or however blessed they were with great songs or long careers, if they lived alone, they lived alone. That's not the way I wanted to live prior to the tour or after." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-matter-how-famous-and-established-they-were-or-141299/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.




