"No matter how much we love our family and friends, a part of us needs the occasional moment of solitude as a plant needs water. It is the inmost core of each of us that, that part which nobody can define, but which we all recognize because it never changes"
About this Quote
That matters coming from an actress whose career depended on being watched. Neagle lived in an era when public women were packaged as approachable ideals and private life was treated as communal property. In that context, “the occasional moment of solitude” reads less like self-help and more like a boundary drawn with a smile. She’s not railing against family or fame; she’s calmly insisting they can’t substitute for the self’s internal weather.
The second sentence pushes the thought from practical to philosophical. She reaches for “the inmost core,” then admits it’s “nobody can define” it - an elegant hedge that avoids sounding mystical while still naming something many people feel: an identity that isn’t performance. The stuttered “that, that part” is telling, like someone trying to point at a sensation rather than a concept. Her punchline is “it never changes,” a steadying idea in a life built on roles, scripts, and reinvention. The subtext: you can be many things to many people, but you still need a room inside that stays unoccupied.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Care |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Neagle, Anna. (2026, February 19). No matter how much we love our family and friends, a part of us needs the occasional moment of solitude as a plant needs water. It is the inmost core of each of us that, that part which nobody can define, but which we all recognize because it never changes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-matter-how-much-we-love-our-family-and-friends-42432/
Chicago Style
Neagle, Anna. "No matter how much we love our family and friends, a part of us needs the occasional moment of solitude as a plant needs water. It is the inmost core of each of us that, that part which nobody can define, but which we all recognize because it never changes." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-matter-how-much-we-love-our-family-and-friends-42432/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"No matter how much we love our family and friends, a part of us needs the occasional moment of solitude as a plant needs water. It is the inmost core of each of us that, that part which nobody can define, but which we all recognize because it never changes." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-matter-how-much-we-love-our-family-and-friends-42432/. Accessed 1 Mar. 2026.






