"No men who really think deeply about women retain a high opinion of them; men either despise women or they have never thought seriously about them"
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The subtext is less about women than about men’s self-image. Women function here as a philosophical prop, a mirror for masculine anxiety: the fear that desire compromises reason, that intimacy dilutes autonomy, that the body humiliates the mind. His binary gives men two roles only - despiser or dupe - and offers a perverse consolation prize to the first. If you can’t reconcile your attraction with your ideals, contempt is an easy substitute for complexity.
Context matters: fin-de-siecle Vienna was saturated with grand theories that claimed to diagnose the modern soul, and it was also a culture panicking about gender, sexuality, and social change. Weininger’s own brief, tortured life (and posthumous notoriety) helped fossilize his ideas into a kind of dark genius myth: the young thinker who “dared” to say the unsayable. But what makes the line work is its rhetorical trap, not its insight. It weaponizes “serious thought” to launder resentment into philosophy, and it flatters the reader’s ego while shrinking women into a single, contemptible abstraction.
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Weininger, Otto. (2026, January 16). No men who really think deeply about women retain a high opinion of them; men either despise women or they have never thought seriously about them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-men-who-really-think-deeply-about-women-retain-134277/
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"No men who really think deeply about women retain a high opinion of them; men either despise women or they have never thought seriously about them." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-men-who-really-think-deeply-about-women-retain-134277/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







