"No one ever told me I was pretty when I was a little girl. All little girls should be told they're pretty, even if they aren't"
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The second sentence twists into something sharper: "should" smuggles in an ethic, and "even if they aren't" detonates the whole idea of objective beauty. Monroe isn't defending lying so much as naming a social technology. Compliments are training wheels for selfhood; they teach girls they are worth attention, which is exactly the currency they will be told to trade in. The cruelty is that the system demands they be desirable, then punishes them for believing it matters.
Context matters here: Monroe was a star manufactured by studios, photographed into an icon, narrated into a fantasy. Behind that, she grew up in foster care and instability, with a biography that reads like a primer on how neglect turns into performance. The line carries her signature contradiction: she knows the beauty game is rigged and still insists on giving girls the one tool she didn't get - a buffer against the world's casual meanness. It's not vanity. It's triage.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Monroe, Marilyn. (2026, January 17). No one ever told me I was pretty when I was a little girl. All little girls should be told they're pretty, even if they aren't. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-one-ever-told-me-i-was-pretty-when-i-was-a-36749/
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Monroe, Marilyn. "No one ever told me I was pretty when I was a little girl. All little girls should be told they're pretty, even if they aren't." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-one-ever-told-me-i-was-pretty-when-i-was-a-36749/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"No one ever told me I was pretty when I was a little girl. All little girls should be told they're pretty, even if they aren't." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-one-ever-told-me-i-was-pretty-when-i-was-a-36749/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



