"No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite"
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Mandela turns a moral claim into a practical strategy by framing hatred as an acquired skill, not an inborn fate. The line’s quiet brilliance is its reframing of bigotry from “truth” to training. If hate is learned, it can be unlearned; prejudice stops being an untouchable cultural inheritance and becomes a social habit with instructors, institutions, and incentives. That shifts responsibility away from vague “human nature” and onto schools, families, propaganda, and power.
The quote is also a piece of political engineering. Mandela isn’t merely comforting the oppressed; he’s offering a roadmap for rebuilding a country that has mechanized racial hierarchy. In apartheid’s aftermath, South Africa needed more than condemnation. It needed a psychologically plausible case for coexistence that didn’t require pretending trauma never happened. By acknowledging that hate is taught, Mandela implicitly names the system that taught it without getting trapped in a politics of endless retaliation. It’s an argument designed to keep the future from being held hostage by the past.
The pivot to love “coming more naturally” is rhetorical judo. He doesn’t claim people are automatically good; he claims love is easier to cultivate than hate because hate demands maintenance: repeated stories about threat, difference, and deservedness. Love, in his usage, isn’t sentimentality. It’s a civic muscle: the capacity to see a neighbor where a regime taught you to see an enemy. That’s why the quote endures - it makes reconciliation sound less like sainthood and more like instruction.
The quote is also a piece of political engineering. Mandela isn’t merely comforting the oppressed; he’s offering a roadmap for rebuilding a country that has mechanized racial hierarchy. In apartheid’s aftermath, South Africa needed more than condemnation. It needed a psychologically plausible case for coexistence that didn’t require pretending trauma never happened. By acknowledging that hate is taught, Mandela implicitly names the system that taught it without getting trapped in a politics of endless retaliation. It’s an argument designed to keep the future from being held hostage by the past.
The pivot to love “coming more naturally” is rhetorical judo. He doesn’t claim people are automatically good; he claims love is easier to cultivate than hate because hate demands maintenance: repeated stories about threat, difference, and deservedness. Love, in his usage, isn’t sentimentality. It’s a civic muscle: the capacity to see a neighbor where a regime taught you to see an enemy. That’s why the quote endures - it makes reconciliation sound less like sainthood and more like instruction.
Quote Details
| Topic | Human Rights |
|---|---|
| Source | Unverified source: Long Walk to Freedom (Nelson Mandela, 1994)
Evidence: Final chapter (often described as one of the last paragraphs); exact page varies by edition. This quote is from Nelson Mandela’s autobiography. Multiple secondary references consistently attribute it to the closing section of the book, but the exact page number depends heavily on the edition (199... Other candidates (2) Nelson Mandela (Nelson Mandela) compilation96.7% he has no choice but to become an outlaw no one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin or hi... American Dream, a Search for Justice (Sherman D. Manning, 2016) compilation90.0% ... No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin , or his background , or his religion . Peo... |
| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on April 5, 2023 |
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