"No one will do for you what you need to do for yourself. We cannot afford to be separate. We have to see that all of us are in the same boat"
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Then she pivots, and the quote tightens its grip. “We cannot afford to be separate” is a pointed rebuke to the politics of siloed struggle: race without gender, gender without race, class without either. Height understood how movements get managed into manageable pieces - how institutions prefer grievances that don’t link up, leaders that don’t coalition-build, victories that don’t redistribute power.
The final image, “the same boat,” is deliberately unglamorous. Not a mountaintop, not a promised land: a shared vessel that can capsize. It carries urgency and mutual vulnerability, but also a subtle warning: if you treat other people’s rights as optional cargo, you’re still risking your own safety. Height’s intent is collective responsibility without sentimentalism - do your part, then refuse the luxury of isolation.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Height, Dorothy. (2026, January 17). No one will do for you what you need to do for yourself. We cannot afford to be separate. We have to see that all of us are in the same boat. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-one-will-do-for-you-what-you-need-to-do-for-52688/
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Height, Dorothy. "No one will do for you what you need to do for yourself. We cannot afford to be separate. We have to see that all of us are in the same boat." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-one-will-do-for-you-what-you-need-to-do-for-52688/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"No one will do for you what you need to do for yourself. We cannot afford to be separate. We have to see that all of us are in the same boat." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-one-will-do-for-you-what-you-need-to-do-for-52688/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






