"No temptation can ever be measured by the value of its object"
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Colette’s line is a neat little pin in the balloon of moral bookkeeping. We love to pretend temptation scales with the prize: the bigger the payoff, the harder the fight, the more “understandable” the slip. She refuses that math. Desire, in her telling, is not a rational market where objects carry stable price tags; it’s a volatile weather system. A trinket can unmake you. A “worthless” rendezvous can carry more charge than an inheritance. The point is less about excusing indulgence than about exposing how flimsy our self-portraits are when we rely on external measures.
The intent is quietly radical: to shift the scrutiny from the object to the subject. If temptation can’t be measured by value, then the real variable is need - loneliness, boredom, vanity, curiosity, hunger for sensation. Colette, who wrote with an unsentimental intimacy about appetite and constraint, knows that what pulls us isn’t the thing itself but what it promises to repair or electrify. The “object” is often just a prop.
There’s also a sly feminist edge. In a culture eager to judge women’s choices by the presumed worth of the man, the affair, the luxury, Colette strips away the alibi of “but he was extraordinary” or “but it was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.” Temptation isn’t legitimized by prestige. It’s personal, often petty, and therefore harder to romanticize - which makes it more honest, and more unsettling.
The intent is quietly radical: to shift the scrutiny from the object to the subject. If temptation can’t be measured by value, then the real variable is need - loneliness, boredom, vanity, curiosity, hunger for sensation. Colette, who wrote with an unsentimental intimacy about appetite and constraint, knows that what pulls us isn’t the thing itself but what it promises to repair or electrify. The “object” is often just a prop.
There’s also a sly feminist edge. In a culture eager to judge women’s choices by the presumed worth of the man, the affair, the luxury, Colette strips away the alibi of “but he was extraordinary” or “but it was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.” Temptation isn’t legitimized by prestige. It’s personal, often petty, and therefore harder to romanticize - which makes it more honest, and more unsettling.
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