"No trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made. Destiny is made known silently"
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The intent is partly corrective, partly consoling. De Mille reframes “destiny” not as an external force that announces itself, but as something you only recognize in the aftermath - a quiet accumulation of choices, hesitations, and tiny pivots. “Important decisions” are rarely the ones we script as pivotal. They’re the phone call you don’t return, the audition you almost skip, the city you move to for “just a year.” The subtext is that drama is a poor measurement tool: if you’re waiting for a feeling of certainty, you’ll miss the moment that actually changes your life.
Context matters. De Mille’s world was discipline, repetition, and risk managed in silence: the private grind behind public applause. In dance, the loudest thing can be the absence of sound - the held breath before a leap, the quiet choice to keep going after an injury. Her phrasing borrows that physical truth. “Destiny” becomes choreography: shaped backstage, revealed later, and never as neatly as the program notes promise. The line works because it resists self-help triumphalism while still granting meaning to the mundane. It’s a warning and a permission slip: stop waiting for trumpets; listen for the quiet.
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| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mille, Agnes de. (2026, January 16). No trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made. Destiny is made known silently. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-trumpets-sound-when-the-important-decisions-of-128003/
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Mille, Agnes de. "No trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made. Destiny is made known silently." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-trumpets-sound-when-the-important-decisions-of-128003/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"No trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made. Destiny is made known silently." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/no-trumpets-sound-when-the-important-decisions-of-128003/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.









