"Nobody ever forgets where he buried the hatchet"
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Hubbard’s line lands like a folksy proverb, then twists the knife: reconciliation is often just aggression with better PR. “Burying the hatchet” is supposed to signal peace, the tidy end of a quarrel. Hubbard’s sly correction is that the weapon doesn’t vanish; it’s cached. The image is physical and a little comic - some grown adult trudging out to the yard, marking the spot - which makes the cynicism easier to swallow. You can laugh at it, then realize it’s describing you.
The intent is less to sneer at forgiveness than to expose the bargain behind it. People agree to stop fighting, but they rarely agree to stop keeping score. Memory becomes leverage. The hatchet stays available for later, and both sides know it. That shared knowledge is the real subtext: “Peace” can mean a ceasefire, not a conversion.
As a journalist and humorist working in the early 20th-century Midwest, Hubbard specialized in plain-spoken wisdom that punctured civic pieties. This was the era of boosterism and moral uplift copy, when small-town respectability prized public harmony. His joke acknowledges the private truth under that varnish: grudges are socially managed, not magically dissolved. The line also has a newsroom edge; editors and politicians may shake hands today, but tomorrow’s scandal file is already labeled.
What makes it work is its economy. One sentence turns a warm idiom into a warning about human bookkeeping: we can forgive, but we rarely misplace the map.
The intent is less to sneer at forgiveness than to expose the bargain behind it. People agree to stop fighting, but they rarely agree to stop keeping score. Memory becomes leverage. The hatchet stays available for later, and both sides know it. That shared knowledge is the real subtext: “Peace” can mean a ceasefire, not a conversion.
As a journalist and humorist working in the early 20th-century Midwest, Hubbard specialized in plain-spoken wisdom that punctured civic pieties. This was the era of boosterism and moral uplift copy, when small-town respectability prized public harmony. His joke acknowledges the private truth under that varnish: grudges are socially managed, not magically dissolved. The line also has a newsroom edge; editors and politicians may shake hands today, but tomorrow’s scandal file is already labeled.
What makes it work is its economy. One sentence turns a warm idiom into a warning about human bookkeeping: we can forgive, but we rarely misplace the map.
Quote Details
| Topic | Forgiveness |
|---|---|
| Source | Attributed to Kin Hubbard; listed on Wikiquote (Kin Hubbard). Quote: "Nobody ever forgets where he buried the hatchet". |
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