"Nobody understands another's sorrow, and nobody another's joy"
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The subtext is doing double work. On one hand, it punctures the sentimental belief that empathy can fully bridge experience. We can approximate, we can gesture, we can sit beside someone in pain, but we don’t occupy their nervous system, their memories, their private associations. On the other hand, Schubert refuses to grant joy a special exemption. Even happiness, supposedly communal and contagious, remains oddly proprietary. Your triumph is never quite legible to others; it gets translated into their own scale of desire, envy, affection, or indifference.
Context matters: early 19th-century Vienna prized sociability and salon culture, yet Schubert’s inner life was famously intense, threaded through with unfulfilled loves, precarious finances, and later illness. For a songwriter of Lieder, the thought is almost meta: music is designed to communicate feeling across bodies, and still the composer suspects a residue that won’t carry. That tension is the engine of his art. The line doesn’t counsel despair so much as realism: if no one can fully “understand” your sorrow or joy, expression becomes not a cure, but a courageous attempt at contact anyway.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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