"Nobody understands anyone 18, including those who are 18"
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Adolescence gets mythologized as a moment of pure self-knowledge: you’re finally old enough to have opinions, young enough to be “authentic.” Jim Bishop punctures that romance with a journalist’s deadpan cruelty. “Nobody understands anyone 18” is already a sweeping indictment, but the kicker - “including those who are 18” - flips the knife. The line isn’t really about adults failing to decode teenagers; it’s about the teenage self as a moving target, living inside a body and brain that are rapidly rewriting the rules.
Bishop’s intent is observational, not diagnostic. He’s not offering a moral lesson so much as a cultural correction: stop treating 18 as a stable category. In mid-century America especially, 18 carried symbolic weight - draft age, voting debates, the doorstep of adult responsibility. Institutions needed the number to mean something clean. Bishop suggests it doesn’t. The subtext is that “adult” is an administrative label, not an emotional reality.
It works because it’s structured like a punchline with a truth claim attached. The first clause invites a familiar generational gripe; the second clause refuses to let adults feel superior. It’s an equal-opportunity dismissal that reads as compassion in disguise. If even the 18-year-old can’t fully grasp who they are, then the confusion, the overconfidence, the sudden pivots aren’t character flaws. They’re the point.
Underneath the wit is a quiet critique of certainty itself: we demand coherence from people precisely when they’re least equipped to provide it.
Bishop’s intent is observational, not diagnostic. He’s not offering a moral lesson so much as a cultural correction: stop treating 18 as a stable category. In mid-century America especially, 18 carried symbolic weight - draft age, voting debates, the doorstep of adult responsibility. Institutions needed the number to mean something clean. Bishop suggests it doesn’t. The subtext is that “adult” is an administrative label, not an emotional reality.
It works because it’s structured like a punchline with a truth claim attached. The first clause invites a familiar generational gripe; the second clause refuses to let adults feel superior. It’s an equal-opportunity dismissal that reads as compassion in disguise. If even the 18-year-old can’t fully grasp who they are, then the confusion, the overconfidence, the sudden pivots aren’t character flaws. They’re the point.
Underneath the wit is a quiet critique of certainty itself: we demand coherence from people precisely when they’re least equipped to provide it.
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| Topic | Youth |
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