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Love Quote by Roman Polanski

"Normal love isn't interesting. I assure you that it's incredibly boring"

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“Normal love” is Polanski’s neat little provocation: a director’s eye dismissing the stable, reciprocal kind of intimacy as unusable footage. The line isn’t really about love being dull; it’s about narrative hunger. Cinema runs on friction. “Normal” love resolves too cleanly, leaving no suspense to cut against, no power shift to dramatize, no rot under the wallpaper. Calling it “incredibly boring” is a creative manifesto in the guise of a shrug.

The subtext is more revealing than the claim. “I assure you” has the tone of someone selling expertise, positioning the speaker as an authority on desire’s supposed limits. It’s also a defense mechanism: if ordinary tenderness is uninteresting, then the artist is absolved from portraying it, and the audience is trained to crave transgression as sophistication. That’s the quiet cultural move here: redefining dysfunction as depth.

Context matters because Polanski’s films often stage desire as entrapment - eroticism tangled with menace, innocence with manipulation. In that body of work, “normal love” isn’t just boring; it’s a threat to his preferred moral weather. Yet the quote lands differently given Polanski’s real-world notoriety. What reads as an aesthetic preference can also sound like a worldview that glamorizes boundary-breaking and treats stability as naive. The cynicism is doing double duty: it flatters our taste for the “interesting,” while smuggling in an excuse for why the “normal” doesn’t deserve the camera’s respect.

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Polanski, Roman. (2026, January 16). Normal love isn't interesting. I assure you that it's incredibly boring. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/normal-love-isnt-interesting-i-assure-you-that-106449/

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Polanski, Roman. "Normal love isn't interesting. I assure you that it's incredibly boring." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/normal-love-isnt-interesting-i-assure-you-that-106449/.

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"Normal love isn't interesting. I assure you that it's incredibly boring." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/normal-love-isnt-interesting-i-assure-you-that-106449/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Roman Polanski (born August 18, 1933) is a Director from Poland.

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