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Happiness Quote by Gerald Massey

"Not by appointment do we meet delight Or joy; they heed not our expectancy; But round some corner of the streets of life they of a sudden greet us with a smile"

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Delight, Massey insists, is an ambush, not a meeting you can schedule. The line turns on a quiet rebuke to the managerial impulse in human life: the fantasy that if we plan well enough, behave well enough, want hard enough, joy will arrive on time. “Not by appointment” borrows the language of polite Victorian order, then punctures it. Pleasure doesn’t “heed” our calendars, our self-improvement schemes, or our carefully staged expectations; it operates by its own unruly physics.

What makes the passage work is how it dramatizes surprise without drifting into sentimentality. Joy isn’t described as a grand revelation but as something encountered “round some corner of the streets of life” - ordinary, urban, almost accidental. Massey’s street-corner image is democratic: happiness belongs to the everyday passerby, not just the privileged soul in a pastoral scene. The “sudden” greeting and the “smile” give delight agency; it’s personified as a fleeting stranger who recognizes you when you’ve stopped trying to be recognized.

Context sharpens the edge. Massey rose from child labor to literary success, and his writing often carries a working person’s skepticism toward genteel platitudes. This isn’t the Romantic promise that feeling will redeem everything; it’s a hard-earned psychology. The subtext is survival advice: loosen your grip on expectancy, because expectancy can turn into entitlement, and entitlement curdles into disappointment. Leave room for the unplanned, and the world has more ways to reach you.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Massey, Gerald. (2026, January 14). Not by appointment do we meet delight Or joy; they heed not our expectancy; But round some corner of the streets of life they of a sudden greet us with a smile. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/not-by-appointment-do-we-meet-delight-or-joy-they-162840/

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Massey, Gerald. "Not by appointment do we meet delight Or joy; they heed not our expectancy; But round some corner of the streets of life they of a sudden greet us with a smile." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/not-by-appointment-do-we-meet-delight-or-joy-they-162840/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Not by appointment do we meet delight Or joy; they heed not our expectancy; But round some corner of the streets of life they of a sudden greet us with a smile." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/not-by-appointment-do-we-meet-delight-or-joy-they-162840/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Gerald Massey

Gerald Massey (May 29, 1828 - October 29, 1907) was a Poet from England.

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