"Not he who has much is rich, but he who gives much"

Wealth is traditionally measured by accumulation , how much one possesses, how much one owns or controls. However, Erich Fromm turns this notion on its head, suggesting that genuine richness lies not in what is kept, but in what is given away. The essence of this idea is rooted in the nature of human fulfillment and the paradoxical relationship between giving and abundance.

When people cling tightly to material possessions, they may experience security on the surface, yet a lingering sense of scarcity often persists. There is always more to acquire, always something missing. In contrast, the act of giving , be it love, kindness, resources, knowledge, or time , opens a person to connection, gratitude, and meaning. The willingness to give requires and develops an inner abundance, a sense that one is already full enough to share with others.

Fromm’s words also resonate with psychological and spiritual traditions where generosity and compassion are seen as pathways to inner wealth. Giving fosters relationships, builds community, and creates a sense of purpose. The joy and fulfillment derived from helping others cannot be equated with material gain. Instead of depleting oneself, genuine generosity enlarges the giver’s world , the more love and kindness one gives, the more one has to share. This is the paradox: giving does not lessen the giver but enriches both parties.

Furthermore, generosity is an expression of freedom; it reflects a detachment from the compulsive need to accumulate and a trust that life is abundant, not scarce. Those who give much act from a place of confidence in life and in themselves. In their eyes, wealth is measured by impact, relationships, and the positive change they bring to others. Such individuals are truly rich, not because of the contents of their bank accounts, but because of their capacity to give.