"Not only is it harder to be a man, it is also harder to become one"
About this Quote
The subtext is less “men have it tough” than “the system that flatters men also grinds them down.” Patriarchal expectations promise authority, but they invoice you in loneliness, stress, and a thin emotional vocabulary. The grammar matters: the quote stacks “not only... also...” like a news brief, making the claim feel obvious, almost bureaucratic. That’s Huffington’s journalist’s instinct: smuggle a cultural critique into a sentence that reads like common sense.
Contextually, this fits her broader brand of reframing success and wellness as social problems, not private shortcomings. In an era of economic precarity, collapsing career ladders, and louder scrutiny of gender roles, “becoming a man” gets harder because the old milestones (job stability, home ownership, unchallenged authority) are less attainable and less morally defensible. The line lands because it captures a modern male anxiety: the prize is smaller, the entrance exam is longer, and the proctors keep rewriting the questions.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Huffington, Arianna. (2026, January 17). Not only is it harder to be a man, it is also harder to become one. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/not-only-is-it-harder-to-be-a-man-it-is-also-44190/
Chicago Style
Huffington, Arianna. "Not only is it harder to be a man, it is also harder to become one." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/not-only-is-it-harder-to-be-a-man-it-is-also-44190/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Not only is it harder to be a man, it is also harder to become one." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/not-only-is-it-harder-to-be-a-man-it-is-also-44190/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





