"Not to decide is to decide"
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Its power comes from the way it collapses passive and active verbs into the same ethical category. "Not to decide" sounds humble, cautious, even prudent. Cox exposes it as consequential behavior: delaying, abstaining, refusing to take a side all push the world in a particular direction. In politics, neutrality routinely functions as support for the status quo. In personal life, it can be a way of letting other people make the hard choices for you while you keep the self-image of being fair-minded.
The subtext is implicitly religious without being preachy. It echoes a moral anthropology: you are always choosing, because you are always located, always benefiting or suffering from some arrangement of power. Cox is also warning against a modern habit of mistaking uncertainty for virtue. You can be unsure and still responsible; you can be conflicted and still obligated. The line doesn’t demand instant certainty. It demands honesty about what hesitation does in the world.
Quote Details
| Topic | Decision-Making |
|---|---|
| Source | Unverified source: On Not Leaving It to the Snake (Harvey Cox, 1967)
Evidence: p. viii (preface/intro front matter, roman numerals). The earliest trace I can verify to a primary Cox work is a longer sentence in Harvey Cox’s 1967 book (front matter p. viii): “Somewhere deep down we know that in the final analysis we do decide things and that even our decisions to let someone... Other candidates (2) Why It's Hard To Be Good (Al Gini, 2013) compilation95.0% ... Harvey Cox , " Not to decide , is to decide . " But perhaps the ultimate reason ethics is so difficult for us is ... Decisions (Harvey Cox) compilation50.0% s we do decide things and that even our decisions to let someone else decide are |
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