"Nothing but heaven itself is better than a friend who is really a friend"
About this Quote
The wit is in the calibration. Plautus doesn’t claim friendship is divine; he makes it the runner-up, an almost-sacred good that still belongs to messy human life. “Nothing but heaven itself” flatters the sentiment while quietly admitting the damage people do when they counterfeit intimacy. It’s a compliment with an embedded warning: most relationships fail the test when money, status, or sex enters the scene. That’s pure Plautine soil, where plots run on deception and everybody’s loyalty has a price tag.
Subtextually, the quote is also a response to Roman masculinity and public reputation. A “real” friend isn’t the guy who applauds you in the forum; it’s the one who stays when your fortunes flip. The line elevates fidelity over glamour, constancy over utility. Coming from a playwright, it’s also a sly claim about theater itself: amidst masks and role-playing, authenticity becomes the most dramatic twist of all.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Plautus. (2026, January 17). Nothing but heaven itself is better than a friend who is really a friend. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-but-heaven-itself-is-better-than-a-friend-32623/
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Plautus. "Nothing but heaven itself is better than a friend who is really a friend." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-but-heaven-itself-is-better-than-a-friend-32623/.
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"Nothing but heaven itself is better than a friend who is really a friend." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-but-heaven-itself-is-better-than-a-friend-32623/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











