"Nothing is ever the same as they said it was"
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The phrasing does quiet violence to expectation. "Nothing" is absolute, almost taunting, but the sentence isn't dramatic; it's flat, reportorial. That tonal mismatch is the point. Arbus isn't romanticizing truth; she's describing the everyday betrayal built into representation. "Ever" widens it into a rule of perception: time changes things, memory distorts them, and language arrives late. The past is always already edited.
Context matters because Arbus made her reputation photographing people America preferred to keep off-camera - outsiders, performers, the visibly different, the ordinary rendered strange by direct attention. Her work exposed how much of "normal" is a social agreement, not a fact. In that light, the quote reads less like pessimism than method: go look for yourself, and keep looking after the narrative claims it's settled.
Subtext: distrust the authorized version. The camera, often treated as an objective witness, becomes in Arbus's hands a tool for revealing how staged our certainties are. The sting is that she includes the viewer in "they". We are always being told what we're seeing - and we are always wrong by at least a little.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Arbus, Diane. (2026, January 15). Nothing is ever the same as they said it was. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-is-ever-the-same-as-they-said-it-was-4020/
Chicago Style
Arbus, Diane. "Nothing is ever the same as they said it was." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-is-ever-the-same-as-they-said-it-was-4020/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Nothing is ever the same as they said it was." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-is-ever-the-same-as-they-said-it-was-4020/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








