"Nothing makes you more tolerant of a neighbor's noisy party than being there"
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The specific intent is comic, but it’s also diagnostic: Jones is puncturing the flattering story we tell ourselves about being “easygoing.” We frame annoyance as a matter of taste or courtesy; he reframes it as membership. If you’re outside the door, the noise is imposition. Inside, it’s atmosphere. Same volume, different verdict. That switch is the joke, and the critique: our judgments often track participation more than ethics.
The subtext is about bias in miniature. “Tolerance” reads like a civic virtue, but Jones treats it like a social perk - something we extend when we’re included, retract when we’re excluded. It’s a tidy theory of hypocrisy that doesn’t need villains. People aren’t necessarily malicious; they’re just remarkably good at confusing their own comfort with fairness.
Context matters: as a mid-century American journalist, Jones wrote in an era when suburban proximity and postwar “neighborliness” were cultural scripts, not just circumstances. His one-liner neatly skewers the performance of that script. You can smile at it and still feel the sting, because it lands on a modern nerve: outrage is often an access issue. Invite someone in, and the thing they condemned starts sounding like music.
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Jones, Franklin P. (2026, January 17). Nothing makes you more tolerant of a neighbor's noisy party than being there. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-makes-you-more-tolerant-of-a-neighbors-53085/
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Jones, Franklin P. "Nothing makes you more tolerant of a neighbor's noisy party than being there." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-makes-you-more-tolerant-of-a-neighbors-53085/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Nothing makes you more tolerant of a neighbor's noisy party than being there." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-makes-you-more-tolerant-of-a-neighbors-53085/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






