"Nothing said to us, nothing we can learn from others, reaches us so deep as that which we find in ourselves"
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The subtext is almost procedural: therapy works not because the therapist reveals secret truths, but because the patient arrives at them. That’s why the wording is so absolute: “nothing” underscores the gap between information and internalization. You can be told the pattern a hundred times - your attachment style, your defense mechanism, your self-sabotage - and still live as if you’ve never heard it. Then one day you hear yourself say something, or notice a repetition, and it hits with the force of inevitability.
Context matters: Reik wrote in an era when psychoanalysis prized the hidden, the repressed, the indirect. His claim echoes that worldview: the self is not a blank slate awaiting instruction but an archive, and the deepest education is retrieval. The line is both empowering and unsettling. It tells you the truth is already in the building; it also means no one can carry you there.
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Reik, Theodor. (2026, January 16). Nothing said to us, nothing we can learn from others, reaches us so deep as that which we find in ourselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-said-to-us-nothing-we-can-learn-from-82564/
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Reik, Theodor. "Nothing said to us, nothing we can learn from others, reaches us so deep as that which we find in ourselves." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-said-to-us-nothing-we-can-learn-from-82564/.
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"Nothing said to us, nothing we can learn from others, reaches us so deep as that which we find in ourselves." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nothing-said-to-us-nothing-we-can-learn-from-82564/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.












