"Now they're attracted to one another, but repelled by their ethnic origins, so that there was something to overcome. They had to overcome their own prejudices, which had been imposed by the culture - their own shame at being Mexican and Italian"
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The phrasing “repelled by their ethnic origins” is psychologically sharp, almost clinical, because it names a reflex people prefer to launder into “taste” or “compatibility.” Towne insists it’s repulsion, and that it’s learned. That’s the subtext doing its real work: prejudice isn’t only something you encounter across a dinner table; it can be something you carry like a bad smell you’ve been taught to detect on yourself.
His most cutting move is the word “shame.” Not anger, not fear - shame, the most intimate emotion of assimilation. Mexican and Italian here aren’t just backgrounds; they’re markers a culture has ranked, exoticized, mocked, or flattened into stereotypes. In that context, the romance plot becomes a pressure test: can these characters want each other without also wanting to escape what they are?
Even as Towne speaks in the language of character motivation, he’s smuggling in a wider critique of American storytelling. The “obstacle” isn’t destiny; it’s social design. The drama comes from watching people unlearn what they were taught to despise - including in themselves.
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Towne, Robert. (2026, January 15). Now they're attracted to one another, but repelled by their ethnic origins, so that there was something to overcome. They had to overcome their own prejudices, which had been imposed by the culture - their own shame at being Mexican and Italian. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/now-theyre-attracted-to-one-another-but-repelled-164934/
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Towne, Robert. "Now they're attracted to one another, but repelled by their ethnic origins, so that there was something to overcome. They had to overcome their own prejudices, which had been imposed by the culture - their own shame at being Mexican and Italian." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/now-theyre-attracted-to-one-another-but-repelled-164934/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Now they're attracted to one another, but repelled by their ethnic origins, so that there was something to overcome. They had to overcome their own prejudices, which had been imposed by the culture - their own shame at being Mexican and Italian." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/now-theyre-attracted-to-one-another-but-repelled-164934/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.



