"Now very often events are set up for photographers... The weddings are orchestrated about the photographers taking the picture, because if it hasn't been photographed it doesn't really exist"
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The key move is the inversion of priority. Weddings used to be photographed because they mattered; now they matter because they’re photographed. Erwitt’s phrasing (“orchestrated,” “set up”) turns celebration into production, the couple into performers, the photographer into a kind of officiant. It’s funny in that dry Erwitt way, but the humor carries a sharp accusation: we’ve outsourced memory to proof, intimacy to documentation, presence to an audience we can’t see yet but already serve.
The subtext is less “photography is bad” than “photography is powerful.” The camera doesn’t just record; it reorganizes behavior. People angle their bodies, time their kisses, choose venues for backdrops, curate guests for optics. The photograph becomes the event’s afterlife, and then the event begins to obey the needs of that afterlife.
Context matters here: Erwitt comes out of a tradition of candid, humanist street photography that prized the unguarded moment. His complaint isn’t nostalgia; it’s professional grief. When life is pre-lit and pre-approved, spontaneity dies first - and with it, the messy evidence that something actually happened beyond the frame.
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Erwitt, Elliott. (2026, January 16). Now very often events are set up for photographers... The weddings are orchestrated about the photographers taking the picture, because if it hasn't been photographed it doesn't really exist. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/now-very-often-events-are-set-up-for-135051/
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Erwitt, Elliott. "Now very often events are set up for photographers... The weddings are orchestrated about the photographers taking the picture, because if it hasn't been photographed it doesn't really exist." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/now-very-often-events-are-set-up-for-135051/.
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"Now very often events are set up for photographers... The weddings are orchestrated about the photographers taking the picture, because if it hasn't been photographed it doesn't really exist." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/now-very-often-events-are-set-up-for-135051/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.




