"Nowadays, manners are easy and life is hard"
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The line works because of its asymmetry. "Manners" are cheap; they can be learned, copied, deployed like a costume. They require no redistribution of comfort, no confrontation with misery. "Life", by contrast, has become structurally difficult: precarious work, crowding cities, widening gaps between classes, the churn of industrial capitalism. In Disraeli's Britain, the etiquette of the drawing room could coexist with hunger a few streets away. The contrast isn't just moral; it's political.
As a statesman and a novelist who trafficked in social observation, Disraeli understood how elites use politeness as insulation. Good manners can function like a non-aggression pact: everyone agrees to be pleasant so no one has to name what's wrong. The quote's quiet accusation is that public virtue has been outsourced to tone. You can be impeccably courteous while supporting systems that grind people down.
There's also a self-protective note in "Nowadays". It casts the present as a decline, which is how political argument often sneaks in: nostalgia as critique. Disraeli isn't longing for rudeness; he's warning that a society obsessed with surface decency may be morally anesthetized to real hardship. The sharper implication: if manners are all we can manage, it's because we've stopped trying to make life livable.
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