"Obedience is detachment from the self. This is the most radical detachment of all. But what is the self? The self is the principle of reason and responsibility in us. It is the root of freedom, it is what makes us men"
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Then he pivots with a strategically destabilizing question: “But what is the self?” He refuses the modern default where “self” means desire, identity, and personal preference. Instead, he offers an older, more Catholic (and quietly Thomistic) anthropology: the self as “reason and responsibility.” In that framing, obedience is not the erasure of personhood but the training of it. You detach from impulsive self-assertion so that a truer self - capable of accountability - can act.
The subtext is a defense against the standard indictment of religious obedience as dehumanizing. Griffiths anticipates the charge and answers it by relocating the battle line: what actually threatens freedom is not submission to a demanding moral order, but captivity to the unstable, reactive “self” we confuse for liberty. Context matters here: Griffiths spent decades experimenting with contemplative life and interreligious dialogue (notably with Indian spirituality). The quote reads like a bridge between monastic obedience and Eastern detachment, but with a pointed Christian insistence that the end state isn’t dissolution. It’s a human being sharpened into responsibility.
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Griffiths, Bede. (2026, January 18). Obedience is detachment from the self. This is the most radical detachment of all. But what is the self? The self is the principle of reason and responsibility in us. It is the root of freedom, it is what makes us men. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/obedience-is-detachment-from-the-self-this-is-the-5714/
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Griffiths, Bede. "Obedience is detachment from the self. This is the most radical detachment of all. But what is the self? The self is the principle of reason and responsibility in us. It is the root of freedom, it is what makes us men." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/obedience-is-detachment-from-the-self-this-is-the-5714/.
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"Obedience is detachment from the self. This is the most radical detachment of all. But what is the self? The self is the principle of reason and responsibility in us. It is the root of freedom, it is what makes us men." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/obedience-is-detachment-from-the-self-this-is-the-5714/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.











