"Observe decorum, and it will open a path to morality"
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“Observe decorum, and it will open a path to morality” sounds like etiquette advice until you notice the sly downgrade it gives to virtue. Mason Cooley isn’t promising that manners make you good; he’s suggesting they make goodness thinkable. Decorum is the social technology of restraint: the small, rehearsed acts that keep impulse from becoming action. In that gap, morality has room to enter.
The intent is pragmatic, almost behavioral. Cooley, an aphorist with a taste for paradox, sidesteps grand sermons about character and goes straight to habit. “Observe” matters: decorum isn’t a feeling, it’s a practice you can perform even when you don’t “mean it.” That’s the subtextual provocation. We like to imagine ethics as authenticity, as pure inner conviction. Cooley hints that the inner life may follow the outer discipline, not the other way around.
There’s also a quiet critique of modern self-expression. Decorum has become suspect, coded as hypocrisy or repression, a costume for polite cruelty. Cooley concedes the charge by calling it only a “path,” not the destination. Manners can be empty theater; they can also be scaffolding. The line bets on the latter: when you learn to modulate your voice, take turns, hold your tongue, you’re practicing the same muscles required for fairness and mercy.
Contextually, it fits Cooley’s late-20th-century skepticism about moral posturing. In a culture addicted to sincerity, he proposes something less glamorous: start with conduct. The conscience may arrive after the choreography.
The intent is pragmatic, almost behavioral. Cooley, an aphorist with a taste for paradox, sidesteps grand sermons about character and goes straight to habit. “Observe” matters: decorum isn’t a feeling, it’s a practice you can perform even when you don’t “mean it.” That’s the subtextual provocation. We like to imagine ethics as authenticity, as pure inner conviction. Cooley hints that the inner life may follow the outer discipline, not the other way around.
There’s also a quiet critique of modern self-expression. Decorum has become suspect, coded as hypocrisy or repression, a costume for polite cruelty. Cooley concedes the charge by calling it only a “path,” not the destination. Manners can be empty theater; they can also be scaffolding. The line bets on the latter: when you learn to modulate your voice, take turns, hold your tongue, you’re practicing the same muscles required for fairness and mercy.
Contextually, it fits Cooley’s late-20th-century skepticism about moral posturing. In a culture addicted to sincerity, he proposes something less glamorous: start with conduct. The conscience may arrive after the choreography.
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