"Of all our infirmities, the most savage is to despise our being"
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The intent is characteristically Montaignian: to puncture the fantasy that humans can be improved by self-hatred. He’s not selling self-esteem; he’s warning against an ascetic ethic that treats ordinary appetites, fears, and contradictions as evidence of worthlessness. The Essays keep circling the same wager: you get more humane outcomes by telling the truth about yourself than by staging a trial inside your head.
The subtext reads like a rebuke to both theologians and Stoics who turn idealized standards into cudgels. Montaigne’s skepticism isn’t nihilism; it’s damage control. Accept your “infirmities” as part of the package, and you become less eager to purify the world by force. Despise your being, and you’ll look for someone else to despise next.
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Montaigne, Michel de. (2026, January 15). Of all our infirmities, the most savage is to despise our being. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/of-all-our-infirmities-the-most-savage-is-to-17414/
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Montaigne, Michel de. "Of all our infirmities, the most savage is to despise our being." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/of-all-our-infirmities-the-most-savage-is-to-17414/.
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"Of all our infirmities, the most savage is to despise our being." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/of-all-our-infirmities-the-most-savage-is-to-17414/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.












