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Daily Inspiration Quote by Sally Quinn

"Often, what we do is open our house for various charity events. I don't seat according to protocol. I don't invite people because of who they are in the administration or their positions of power. The few who do come, are there because I like them"

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Quinn is doing something more interesting than name-dropping her guest list: she's defending a social ecosystem that runs on access while insisting it still has a soul. The line reads like a genteel rebuke to Washington's oldest sport, the seating chart as power map. By rejecting "protocol", she frames herself as an amateur in the best sense - someone motivated by taste, not clout. It's an argument for hospitality as personal expression, not civic duty.

The subtext, of course, is that you only get to be casual about hierarchy when you're already insulated by it. Opening "our house" for charity is both altruism and brand maintenance; it laundered influence is still influence. Quinn's refusal to invite people "because of who they are in the administration" is a soft jab at the transactional dinner-party circuit, but it also signals her confidence that the right people will come anyway. Power, in her telling, is a faint smell in the room, not the point of the gathering - which is precisely how elite power prefers to present itself.

Context matters: Quinn is a longtime Washington journalist and hostess, a figure associated with Georgetown salons where media, money, and politics cross-pollinate. Her tone is lightly defiant, almost cheeky, but it carries a boundary: she wants credit for independence without surrendering the pleasures of proximity. The final phrase, "because I like them", is the clincher - intimacy as moral cover, and as the ultimate gatekeeping criterion. In a city obsessed with leverage, she sells likability as the purest currency.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Quinn, Sally. (2026, February 18). Often, what we do is open our house for various charity events. I don't seat according to protocol. I don't invite people because of who they are in the administration or their positions of power. The few who do come, are there because I like them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/often-what-we-do-is-open-our-house-for-various-71187/

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Quinn, Sally. "Often, what we do is open our house for various charity events. I don't seat according to protocol. I don't invite people because of who they are in the administration or their positions of power. The few who do come, are there because I like them." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/often-what-we-do-is-open-our-house-for-various-71187/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Often, what we do is open our house for various charity events. I don't seat according to protocol. I don't invite people because of who they are in the administration or their positions of power. The few who do come, are there because I like them." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/often-what-we-do-is-open-our-house-for-various-71187/. Accessed 29 Mar. 2026.

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Sally Quinn (born July 1, 1941) is a Journalist from USA.

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