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Daily Inspiration Quote by Star Jones

"Oh, definitely and you know you take the bitter with the sweet but the benefits far outweigh the burdens of what I've been able to do for my family, my word"

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There is a practiced, daytime-TV buoyancy to Star Jones's line: the opening "Oh, definitely and you know" isn’t thinking out loud so much as signaling composure. It buys time, smooths over whatever question prompted it, and frames her as someone who has already processed the mess. The familiar cliche "take the bitter with the sweet" functions like a public-relations airbag: it acknowledges hardship without offering details that could be quoted back as grievance.

The real payload arrives in the pivot: "but the benefits far outweigh the burdens". That comparative language is doing defensive work. It suggests a life where scrutiny, hustle, and trade-offs are assumed - and where she’s aware the audience might suspect the "burdens" are self-inflicted or glamorous. By insisting on the ledger being positive, she converts potential critique into a moral accounting.

Then she tightens the frame to what plays best in celebrity culture: family. "What I've been able to do for my family" recasts career as caretaking, not ambition. It’s a strategic claim to virtue in a culture that punishes women - especially visible, opinionated women - for wanting power on its own terms.

"My word" seals it like an oath. It’s old-school and slightly Southern in its cadence, a personal guarantee meant to cut through gossip and cynicism. Subtext: you can debate her choices, but you can’t question her motive. This isn’t confession; it’s credibility management, delivered with the warmth of someone who’s learned that sincerity is also a performance.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jones, Star. (2026, January 16). Oh, definitely and you know you take the bitter with the sweet but the benefits far outweigh the burdens of what I've been able to do for my family, my word. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/oh-definitely-and-you-know-you-take-the-bitter-102665/

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Jones, Star. "Oh, definitely and you know you take the bitter with the sweet but the benefits far outweigh the burdens of what I've been able to do for my family, my word." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/oh-definitely-and-you-know-you-take-the-bitter-102665/.

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"Oh, definitely and you know you take the bitter with the sweet but the benefits far outweigh the burdens of what I've been able to do for my family, my word." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/oh-definitely-and-you-know-you-take-the-bitter-102665/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Star Jones (born March 24, 1962) is a Entertainer from USA.

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