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Daily Inspiration Quote by Drew Carey

"Oh, you hate your job? Why didn't you say so? There's a support group for that. It's called everybody, and they meet at the bar"

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Carey lands the joke with a fake burst of compassion, then yanks it away. "Oh, you hate your job? Why didn't you say so?" mimics the language of therapy culture and HR empathy, the kind of performative concern that’s supposed to make you feel seen. Then he punctures it: the "support group" isn’t a brave little circle of self-actualizers; it’s "everybody", and the meeting place is the bar. The laugh comes from recognition and from the whiplash between institutional care and the messy, low-rent coping most people can actually access.

The subtext is quietly bleak: misery at work isn’t an individual malfunction, it’s a mass condition. By universalizing job hate, Carey normalizes the complaint while also mocking the idea that the system will meaningfully respond. The bar functions as an alternative welfare state, a place where solidarity is real but chemically mediated. That’s not an endorsement so much as a shrug at what people have been left with.

Context matters. Carey’s comedy rose in the era of service-sector grind and office sitcoms, when "work-life balance" was becoming a slogan while insecurity and boredom remained the lived experience. The line plays like a one-liner, but it’s also a tiny social diagnosis: if everyone’s in the same group, maybe the problem isn’t your attitude. It’s the job, the economy, the whole arrangement.

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TopicWitty One-Liners
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Later attribution: Thank You for Firing Me! (Kitty Martini, Candice Reed, 2010) modern compilationISBN: 9781402783791 · ID: SGOHEQAAQBAJ
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Carey, Drew. (2026, February 9). Oh, you hate your job? Why didn't you say so? There's a support group for that. It's called everybody, and they meet at the bar. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/oh-you-hate-your-job-why-didnt-you-say-so-theres-56077/

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Carey, Drew. "Oh, you hate your job? Why didn't you say so? There's a support group for that. It's called everybody, and they meet at the bar." FixQuotes. February 9, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/oh-you-hate-your-job-why-didnt-you-say-so-theres-56077/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Oh, you hate your job? Why didn't you say so? There's a support group for that. It's called everybody, and they meet at the bar." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/oh-you-hate-your-job-why-didnt-you-say-so-theres-56077/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Drew Carey (born May 23, 1961) is a Actor from USA.

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