"Old age, believe me, is a good and pleasant thing. It is true you are gently shouldered off the stage, but then you are given such a comfortable front stall as spectator"
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The intent is gently prescriptive. Confucius isn’t only reassuring individuals; he’s outlining how a well-ordered society should treat its elders. In the Analects’ world, stability depends on ritual roles, deference, and continuity. The young do the doing; the old do the seeing. That division of labor turns aging into public utility: elders become repositories of memory, taste, and judgment, positioned to comment, advise, and model restraint.
The subtext is also a frank concession about power. "Shouldered off" implies force, not choice. Confucius acknowledges the inevitable push of succession and the mild humiliations that come with it. His rhetorical move is to make that loss legible as dignity rather than defeat. You may not be the protagonist anymore, but you get the best seat in the house.
Context sharpens the appeal: in a period of political turbulence, Confucius prized order over ego. The "spectator" isn’t passive; it’s the elder as stabilizer, the audience whose expectations keep the play from collapsing into chaos.
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| Topic | Aging |
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Confucius. (2026, January 15). Old age, believe me, is a good and pleasant thing. It is true you are gently shouldered off the stage, but then you are given such a comfortable front stall as spectator. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/old-age-believe-me-is-a-good-and-pleasant-thing-35169/
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Confucius. "Old age, believe me, is a good and pleasant thing. It is true you are gently shouldered off the stage, but then you are given such a comfortable front stall as spectator." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/old-age-believe-me-is-a-good-and-pleasant-thing-35169/.
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"Old age, believe me, is a good and pleasant thing. It is true you are gently shouldered off the stage, but then you are given such a comfortable front stall as spectator." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/old-age-believe-me-is-a-good-and-pleasant-thing-35169/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

