"Old people are often impatient, but for what?"
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Carroll’s line lands like a tiny burr under the skin: it takes a stereotype we’re used to treating as harmless (the cranky elder) and asks a question that exposes how thin our explanations are. “Old people are often impatient” is the kind of observation society files away as folklore, a comedic prop in commercials and family stories. The pivot - “but for what?” - refuses the lazy punchline. It’s not just curiosity; it’s an indictment of how we pathologize aging instead of interrogating what it does to time, dignity, and tolerance for nonsense.
The subtext is that impatience isn’t a personality flaw so much as a changed relationship to scarcity. When you’re older, the future stops feeling like an infinite warehouse of chances. Waiting in line, sitting through small talk, enduring bureaucratic rituals: these aren’t minor annoyances, they’re reminders that your remaining hours are being spent on things you didn’t choose. The question also flips the moral frame. Younger people often assume elders have “earned” calm, wisdom, gratitude. Carroll hints that what they’ve earned is the right to be done pretending.
Contextually, it reads like the kind of Carroll move - speculative without fantasy trappings, using a plainspoken sentence to open a trapdoor into existential unease. The power is in its economy: one clause sets up an assumption, the next detonates it. You’re left deciding whether the impatience is aimed at the world’s slowness, the body’s betrayal, or the cruel joke that life gets clearer right when it gets shorter.
The subtext is that impatience isn’t a personality flaw so much as a changed relationship to scarcity. When you’re older, the future stops feeling like an infinite warehouse of chances. Waiting in line, sitting through small talk, enduring bureaucratic rituals: these aren’t minor annoyances, they’re reminders that your remaining hours are being spent on things you didn’t choose. The question also flips the moral frame. Younger people often assume elders have “earned” calm, wisdom, gratitude. Carroll hints that what they’ve earned is the right to be done pretending.
Contextually, it reads like the kind of Carroll move - speculative without fantasy trappings, using a plainspoken sentence to open a trapdoor into existential unease. The power is in its economy: one clause sets up an assumption, the next detonates it. You’re left deciding whether the impatience is aimed at the world’s slowness, the body’s betrayal, or the cruel joke that life gets clearer right when it gets shorter.
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| Topic | Aging |
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