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Life & Wisdom Quote by Ian Fleming

"Older women are best, because they always think they may be doing it for the last time"

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Fleming lands the line with the cool cruelty of a man who knows exactly how a quip can pass for sophistication. It’s a sexual boast disguised as worldly wisdom: “older women” are framed not as people with desires and boundaries, but as a strategic advantage, made “best” by a manufactured scarcity mindset. The joke depends on a brutal little premise-that women age into desperation, and that a man can profit from it.

The intent isn’t romance; it’s control. By turning time into a pressure tactic, Fleming gives his speaker (and by extension his idealized masculine avatar) a flattering narrative: he’s not predatory, he’s simply astute, choosing partners who will “always think” they’re at the end of the line. That “always” does a lot of work, flattening an entire category of women into a single anxious psychology. It’s not just ageism; it’s a manual for emotional leverage.

Context matters. Fleming’s era sold a particular kind of postwar masculinity: sleek, cynical, sexually entitled, soothed by commodities and conquest. The Bond world in particular often treats women as consumables with expiration dates, then congratulates itself for noticing the packaging. The line’s sting comes from how efficiently it turns a cultural fear-female aging-into a punchline that rewards male confidence. It’s witty in the way a razor is elegant: the cut is the point.

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Later attribution: I Know What I'm Doing -- and Other Lies I Tell Myself (Jen Kirkman, 2017) modern compilationISBN: 9781476770284 · ID: q42xDgAAQBAJ
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Fleming, Ian. (2026, March 8). Older women are best, because they always think they may be doing it for the last time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/older-women-are-best-because-they-always-think-158484/

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Fleming, Ian. "Older women are best, because they always think they may be doing it for the last time." FixQuotes. March 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/older-women-are-best-because-they-always-think-158484/.

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"Older women are best, because they always think they may be doing it for the last time." FixQuotes, 8 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/older-women-are-best-because-they-always-think-158484/. Accessed 14 Mar. 2026.

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Ian Fleming

Ian Fleming (May 28, 1908 - August 12, 1964) was a Author from United Kingdom.

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