"Older women are best, because they always think they may be doing it for the last time"
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The intent isn’t romance; it’s control. By turning time into a pressure tactic, Fleming gives his speaker (and by extension his idealized masculine avatar) a flattering narrative: he’s not predatory, he’s simply astute, choosing partners who will “always think” they’re at the end of the line. That “always” does a lot of work, flattening an entire category of women into a single anxious psychology. It’s not just ageism; it’s a manual for emotional leverage.
Context matters. Fleming’s era sold a particular kind of postwar masculinity: sleek, cynical, sexually entitled, soothed by commodities and conquest. The Bond world in particular often treats women as consumables with expiration dates, then congratulates itself for noticing the packaging. The line’s sting comes from how efficiently it turns a cultural fear-female aging-into a punchline that rewards male confidence. It’s witty in the way a razor is elegant: the cut is the point.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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| Source | Later attribution: I Know What I'm Doing -- and Other Lies I Tell Myself (Jen Kirkman, 2017) modern compilationISBN: 9781476770284 · ID: q42xDgAAQBAJ
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