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Motherhood Quote by Calamity Jane

"On October 28th, 1887, I became the mother of a girl baby, the very image of its father, at least that is what he said, but who has the temper of its mother?"

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Motherhood arrives here without sentimentality, delivered in Calamity Jane's trademark deadpan that doubles as self-defense. The line pivots on a frontier joke: the baby is "the very image of its father" - "at least that is what he said" - a quick undercut that exposes how paternity, reputation, and authority get narrated by men. She lets him have the public-facing compliment while quietly flagging the performance behind it. In one breath, she stages the domestic scene as another kind of tall tale, with truth always negotiated through whoever speaks loudest.

Then she snaps the narrative back into her hands: "but who has the temper of its mother". That's not a Hallmark maternal pride; it's a warning label, a piece of self-mythmaking, and a refusal to be softened by the role she's been assigned. Temper, here, is agency. It's the trait that made her legible in a male world that demanded toughness from anyone trying to survive it, especially a woman who moved through spaces coded as soldiers' camps, saloons, and legends.

The context matters: late-19th-century celebrity was already a rough economy. Calamity Jane lived as both person and story, her image sold and reshaped by dime novels and gawkers. This quote reads like someone who knows she's being watched and chooses to control the punchline. She treats childbirth not as an ending to adventure but as another frontier to narrate on her own terms - one where lineage is less important than inheritance of grit.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jane, Calamity. (2026, February 20). On October 28th, 1887, I became the mother of a girl baby, the very image of its father, at least that is what he said, but who has the temper of its mother? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/on-october-28th-1887-i-became-the-mother-of-a-16919/

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Jane, Calamity. "On October 28th, 1887, I became the mother of a girl baby, the very image of its father, at least that is what he said, but who has the temper of its mother?" FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/on-october-28th-1887-i-became-the-mother-of-a-16919/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"On October 28th, 1887, I became the mother of a girl baby, the very image of its father, at least that is what he said, but who has the temper of its mother?" FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/on-october-28th-1887-i-became-the-mother-of-a-16919/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.

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Calamity Jane (May 1, 1852 - August 1, 1903) was a Soldier from USA.

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