"On-screen relationships are the best because you don't have to worry about saying the wrong things. And if the guy's got a girlfriend, or I'm not attracted to him, it's even better. It's just my character kissing his character"
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The subtext is a quiet rejection of the myth that actors “really” fall for each other because they look convincing. Witt reframes chemistry as craft, not fate. Her emphasis on “saying the wrong things” hints at how romance off-camera is a minefield of misread signals and unwanted expectations, while on-camera it’s contractually legible. There’s a script for desire, which paradoxically makes it easier to perform.
Her most barbed insight is that obstacles make the work simpler: if he has a girlfriend, if she’s not attracted to him, it’s “even better.” That’s not cruelty; it’s boundary-setting. When real-world attraction is off the table, the kiss becomes pure technique, less contaminated by ego, guilt, or hope. It’s also a savvy nod to the industry’s messy power dynamics: distance can be protective, especially in environments where “romance” has historically blurred into pressure.
“It’s just my character kissing his character” lands because it’s both true and slightly too defensive. The line reassures the public, the partners, and maybe the performers themselves: what you’re watching isn’t confession. It’s work.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Witt, Alicia. (2026, January 16). On-screen relationships are the best because you don't have to worry about saying the wrong things. And if the guy's got a girlfriend, or I'm not attracted to him, it's even better. It's just my character kissing his character. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/on-screen-relationships-are-the-best-because-you-109017/
Chicago Style
Witt, Alicia. "On-screen relationships are the best because you don't have to worry about saying the wrong things. And if the guy's got a girlfriend, or I'm not attracted to him, it's even better. It's just my character kissing his character." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/on-screen-relationships-are-the-best-because-you-109017/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"On-screen relationships are the best because you don't have to worry about saying the wrong things. And if the guy's got a girlfriend, or I'm not attracted to him, it's even better. It's just my character kissing his character." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/on-screen-relationships-are-the-best-because-you-109017/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


