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Aging & Wisdom Quote by Lionel Blue

"On the way to work good-hearted young girls sometimes offer me their seats, which I accept and bless them in return, a transaction satisfying to all concerned"

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Lionel Blue turns a small act of commuter courtesy into a perfectly balanced moral comedy. The setup is familiar: a “good-hearted young” person offers a seat to someone who registers as older, tired, or vaguely clerical. But Blue refuses the pious script where the receiver must protest and the giver must insist. He accepts. He blesses. Everyone wins. That last clause, “a transaction satisfying to all concerned,” is the tell: he frames kindness in the language of exchange, as if grace could be itemized like a fare.

The intent is double. On one level, it’s a warm acknowledgment that modern urban life still produces spontaneous decency. On another, it’s a sly confession about vanity and role-playing. Being offered a seat flatters the giver’s self-image as considerate; accepting flatters the recipient’s sense of being worth caring for. The blessing, meanwhile, is both sincere and lightly theatrical: a clergyman’s superpower deployed as a tip. Blue knows that a blessing can function like social currency, giving the young woman a story to tell and the older man a dignified way to say thank you without getting sentimental.

Context matters: Blue, a rabbi and broadcaster with a gift for wry observation, often wrote about faith as lived in the ordinary, not the monumental. Here, holiness isn’t thunderous; it’s negotiated in the aisle of a train. The subtext is that rituals still persist, even in secular spaces, because they lubricate embarrassment, bridge generations, and let strangers briefly agree on what goodness looks like.

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Blue, Lionel. (2026, January 17). On the way to work good-hearted young girls sometimes offer me their seats, which I accept and bless them in return, a transaction satisfying to all concerned. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/on-the-way-to-work-good-hearted-young-girls-36728/

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Blue, Lionel. "On the way to work good-hearted young girls sometimes offer me their seats, which I accept and bless them in return, a transaction satisfying to all concerned." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/on-the-way-to-work-good-hearted-young-girls-36728/.

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"On the way to work good-hearted young girls sometimes offer me their seats, which I accept and bless them in return, a transaction satisfying to all concerned." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/on-the-way-to-work-good-hearted-young-girls-36728/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Lionel Blue (February 6, 1930 - December 3, 2016) was a Clergyman from United Kingdom.

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