"Once I decide to do something, I can't have people telling me I can't. If there's a roadblock, you jump over it, walk around it, crawl under it"
About this Quote
The roadblock triad - “jump over it, walk around it, crawl under it” - is doing cultural work. It turns obstruction into choreography, a physical comedy of persistence that also normalizes tactics. “Jump” implies boldness, “walk around” suggests workaround and patience, “crawl under” quietly hints at indignity or moral compromise: you’ll get dirty if you have to. Kelley doesn’t specify what the roadblocks are, but in the context of celebrity and political biography, we can read them as gatekeepers, NDAs, anxious editors, lawyers, publicists, sources who clam up, and the social pressure to “be nice.” Her refusal to accept “can’t” is a stance against soft censorship as much as formal prohibition.
There’s also an edge of defiance aimed at the reader’s assumptions about authority. Who gets to say “you can’t”? In Kelley’s world, that voice is often an institution protecting its image. The quote is less about personal grit than about power: persistence as a method for prying open narratives that were built to stay closed.
Quote Details
| Topic | Overcoming Obstacles |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kelley, Kitty. (2026, January 16). Once I decide to do something, I can't have people telling me I can't. If there's a roadblock, you jump over it, walk around it, crawl under it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-i-decide-to-do-something-i-cant-have-people-103609/
Chicago Style
Kelley, Kitty. "Once I decide to do something, I can't have people telling me I can't. If there's a roadblock, you jump over it, walk around it, crawl under it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-i-decide-to-do-something-i-cant-have-people-103609/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Once I decide to do something, I can't have people telling me I can't. If there's a roadblock, you jump over it, walk around it, crawl under it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-i-decide-to-do-something-i-cant-have-people-103609/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.







