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Parenting & Family Quote by Robert Mondavi

"Once I was able to take care of myself and my children, I then wanted to share"

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Prosperity, in Mondavi's telling, isn’t a finish line; it’s a permit. The sentence is built like a moral ladder: first survival, then stewardship. "Once" does heavy lifting here, signaling that generosity is not a personality trait so much as a phase you earn the right to enter. It’s a businessman’s version of self-actualization, stripped of sentimentality and grounded in logistics: take care of yourself, take care of your children, then you can afford to look outward.

The subtext is both admirable and strategically neat. Mondavi, a titan of American wine who helped turn Napa from agricultural backwater into global brand, frames philanthropy as responsible sequencing rather than image management. That matters because wealth in America is always on trial. By foregrounding family obligation, he pre-answers the cynic: I didn’t skip the basics; I built a foundation. Only then did I "share" - a word that softens the power imbalance between giver and receiver, recasting philanthropy as communal participation rather than top-down benevolence.

Context sharpens the intent. Mondavi’s legacy includes high-profile giving to universities and the arts, investments that don’t just redistribute resources but also legitimize an industry and a region. The line quietly sells a worldview where private success underwrites public culture: capitalism, but with a civic aftertaste. It’s also a self-portrait of immigrant-era aspiration (even if Mondavi himself was second-generation): stability first, legacy second. In one plain sentence, he turns accumulation into a prelude to contribution, and contribution into the final proof that the accumulation was worth it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mondavi, Robert. (2026, January 17). Once I was able to take care of myself and my children, I then wanted to share. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-i-was-able-to-take-care-of-myself-and-my-73513/

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Mondavi, Robert. "Once I was able to take care of myself and my children, I then wanted to share." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-i-was-able-to-take-care-of-myself-and-my-73513/.

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"Once I was able to take care of myself and my children, I then wanted to share." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-i-was-able-to-take-care-of-myself-and-my-73513/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Robert Mondavi (June 18, 1913 - May 16, 2008) was a Businessman from USA.

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