"Once my heart was captured, reason was shown the door, deliberately and with a sort of frantic joy. I accepted everything, I believed everything, without struggle, without suffering, without regret, without false shame. How can one blush for what one adores?"
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The subtext is social. For a 19th-century woman writer - one who wore mens clothing in Paris, took lovers openly, and turned private life into public argument - love is also a posture against surveillance. "I accepted everything, I believed everything" dares the reader to call her naive, then disarms that charge by framing surrender as chosen. Its not that she couldnt reason; its that she wouldnt perform reasonableness for the comfort of others.
The closing line is the killer: "How can one blush for what one adores?" Blushing is a socially trained reflex, the body doing etiquette on behalf of the crowd. Sand flips it into a moral question: shame only makes sense if adoration is suspect. In that pivot, she turns passion into an ethics, and scandal into a critique of who gets to decide whats embarrassing.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sand, George. (2026, January 15). Once my heart was captured, reason was shown the door, deliberately and with a sort of frantic joy. I accepted everything, I believed everything, without struggle, without suffering, without regret, without false shame. How can one blush for what one adores? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-my-heart-was-captured-reason-was-shown-the-154454/
Chicago Style
Sand, George. "Once my heart was captured, reason was shown the door, deliberately and with a sort of frantic joy. I accepted everything, I believed everything, without struggle, without suffering, without regret, without false shame. How can one blush for what one adores?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-my-heart-was-captured-reason-was-shown-the-154454/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Once my heart was captured, reason was shown the door, deliberately and with a sort of frantic joy. I accepted everything, I believed everything, without struggle, without suffering, without regret, without false shame. How can one blush for what one adores?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-my-heart-was-captured-reason-was-shown-the-154454/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









