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Love & Passion Quote by Ace Frehley

"Once you come and see Kiss, you either love us or you hate us"

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Kiss never asked to be quietly appreciated in the background. Ace Frehley is describing a band engineered for maximum contrast: either the spectacle hits you in the chest or it bounces off entirely. The line sells a live show, sure, but it also lays out a worldview where ambiguity is weakness and indifference is the real enemy.

The intent is part dare, part brand promise. If you buy a ticket, you are consenting to extremes: greasepaint, pyrotechnics, comic-book personas, the volume turned into a physical environment. Frehley frames that as a kind of honesty. Kiss won’t chase tasteful consensus; they’ll force you to declare yourself. That’s marketing with a punkish edge, even if the machinery is pure arena rock.

The subtext is defensive in a savvy way. Kiss have always been a band critics love to dismiss as corporate theater, and fans love precisely for that unapologetic theater. By preloading the audience with “love or hate,” Frehley turns skepticism into proof of impact. If you hate it, fine: you still felt something, and the band still wins the argument that they matter.

Context matters: 1970s rock was full of authenticity policing, and Kiss answered by making artifice the point. Frehley’s quote captures their cultural trick: convert excess into identity, convert polarizing reactions into loyalty, and make the concert not just music but a referendum on whether you’re willing to surrender to spectacle.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Frehley, Ace. (2026, January 17). Once you come and see Kiss, you either love us or you hate us. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-you-come-and-see-kiss-you-either-love-us-or-75143/

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Frehley, Ace. "Once you come and see Kiss, you either love us or you hate us." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-you-come-and-see-kiss-you-either-love-us-or-75143/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Once you come and see Kiss, you either love us or you hate us." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-you-come-and-see-kiss-you-either-love-us-or-75143/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Ace Frehley (born April 27, 1951) is a Musician from USA.

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