"Once you have an animal, you have to commit to it. They need a sense of freedom, but, of course, they must have some boundaries. I am against hitting them though; just send the vibe and that will do it"
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Then she pivots to a tension Americans love to romanticize: freedom versus boundaries. The phrasing mirrors parenting advice and self-help language, smuggling in a worldview where the best authority is the kind that barely looks like authority at all. “They need a sense of freedom” flatters the owner as enlightened, while “some boundaries” reassures the skeptic that she’s not peddling chaos. It’s a negotiation between tenderness and control.
The most revealing move is “I am against hitting them though.” That “though” implies she’s heard the old-school argument: animals only learn through force. Her rebuttal isn’t technical training theory; it’s vibe-based morality. “Just send the vibe” carries a specific Hollywood spirituality: intention as discipline, aura as command, empathy as technique. Subtextually, it’s also about the kind of person she wants to be seen as - firm, kind, modern, nonviolent - and about a cultural shift where cruelty becomes not just wrong, but uncool. Even if “vibe” won’t train every dog, the quote’s real target is the owner’s posture: authority without brutality, commitment without domination.
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| Topic | Pet Love |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stevens, Connie. (2026, January 17). Once you have an animal, you have to commit to it. They need a sense of freedom, but, of course, they must have some boundaries. I am against hitting them though; just send the vibe and that will do it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-you-have-an-animal-you-have-to-commit-to-it-44960/
Chicago Style
Stevens, Connie. "Once you have an animal, you have to commit to it. They need a sense of freedom, but, of course, they must have some boundaries. I am against hitting them though; just send the vibe and that will do it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-you-have-an-animal-you-have-to-commit-to-it-44960/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Once you have an animal, you have to commit to it. They need a sense of freedom, but, of course, they must have some boundaries. I am against hitting them though; just send the vibe and that will do it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/once-you-have-an-animal-you-have-to-commit-to-it-44960/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






