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Happiness Quote by Ira Gershwin

"One can be very happy without demanding that others agree with them"

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A songwriter knows something the rest of us keep trying to unlearn: approval is a terrible muse. Ira Gershwin’s line has the clean swing of a lyric that lands because it refuses to over-sing its point. “Very happy” is doing sneaky work here. It’s not contentment as a consolation prize; it’s joy with volume, the kind that doesn’t need an audience chanting along to feel real.

The intent is almost anti-evangelical. Gershwin isn’t arguing for isolation or indifference, he’s puncturing the modern itch to turn every preference into a referendum. In a culture where taste gets moralized (your music, your politics, your diet, your identity markers), he’s sketching a quieter freedom: your inner life can be legitimate without becoming a recruitment drive.

The subtext is about control. Demanding agreement is a bid to stabilize the world, to make your feelings “safe” by making them shared. Gershwin suggests the opposite: happiness has better odds when it’s less conditional. That’s a deeply pragmatic, show-business wisdom from someone who lived around applause for a living. If you build your emotional house on other people’s reactions, you’re basically renting.

Context matters: Gershwin wrote in an era when mass culture was exploding, when radio, Broadway, and Hollywood were teaching Americans to sync up their tastes. His line is a soft rebellion against that synchronization. It’s also a sly artist’s defense of subjectivity: the best songs don’t ask permission; they invite you in.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gershwin, Ira. (2026, January 15). One can be very happy without demanding that others agree with them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-can-be-very-happy-without-demanding-that-162133/

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Gershwin, Ira. "One can be very happy without demanding that others agree with them." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-can-be-very-happy-without-demanding-that-162133/.

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"One can be very happy without demanding that others agree with them." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-can-be-very-happy-without-demanding-that-162133/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Ira Gershwin (December 6, 1896 - August 17, 1983) was a Musician from USA.

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