"One can know a man from his laugh, and if you like a man's laugh before you know anything of him, you may confidently say that he is a good man"
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The phrasing is doing more work than it admits. “Know a man” sounds like intimacy, but the evidence offered is almost absurdly thin. Dostoevsky isn’t naïve about that; he’s daring you to notice the risk. The confidence of “may confidently say” reads less like a guarantee than a confession of need. His fiction is crowded with masks - charmers, saints, nihilists, penitents - and with the anxiety of misreading others. In that context, the wish for a tell is understandable: a moment when the self leaks out.
“Before you know anything of him” is the real pivot. He’s arguing that moral perception isn’t only an after-the-fact audit of actions; it’s also an instinctive response to a person’s inner temperature. A laugh can carry cruelty, condescension, nervousness, delight, generosity. To “like” it is to sense spaciousness rather than contempt.
Still, Dostoevsky leaves a trapdoor open: liking a laugh also reveals the listener. The quote flatters our intuition, but it also tests it. If you’re drawn to a certain kind of laughter, what does that say about the goodness you’re prepared to recognize?
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| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
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Dostoevsky, Fyodor. (n.d.). One can know a man from his laugh, and if you like a man's laugh before you know anything of him, you may confidently say that he is a good man. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-can-know-a-man-from-his-laugh-and-if-you-like-14512/
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Dostoevsky, Fyodor. "One can know a man from his laugh, and if you like a man's laugh before you know anything of him, you may confidently say that he is a good man." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-can-know-a-man-from-his-laugh-and-if-you-like-14512/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One can know a man from his laugh, and if you like a man's laugh before you know anything of him, you may confidently say that he is a good man." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-can-know-a-man-from-his-laugh-and-if-you-like-14512/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









