"One cannot be deeply responsive to the world without being saddened very often"
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The intent is quietly corrective. Fromm, the humanistic psychoanalyst who wrote about love as an active practice and about society’s role in shaping our inner lives, is smuggling in a critique of emotional numbness as a cultural norm. In a consumer society, the ideal citizen is functional, upbeat, and easily soothed. “Deeply responsive” people are inconvenient; they can’t unsee things, can’t fully buy the distraction economy, can’t treat empathy as a weekend hobby. Their sadness becomes evidence not of personal weakness but of contact with reality.
The subtext also flips a common shame script. People who feel “too much” are often told to toughen up, detach, curate their inputs. Fromm reframes frequent sadness as a marker of aliveness and moral seriousness - not because suffering is noble, but because responsiveness means letting the world reach you before you armor yourself against it.
It’s a bleak comfort, but a bracing one: if you’re saddened often, you might not be broken. You might just be paying attention.
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| Topic | Sadness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fromm, Erich. (2026, January 18). One cannot be deeply responsive to the world without being saddened very often. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-cannot-be-deeply-responsive-to-the-world-23532/
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Fromm, Erich. "One cannot be deeply responsive to the world without being saddened very often." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-cannot-be-deeply-responsive-to-the-world-23532/.
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"One cannot be deeply responsive to the world without being saddened very often." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-cannot-be-deeply-responsive-to-the-world-23532/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









