"One does not get better but different and older and that is always a pleasure"
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The subtext is quietly rebellious. “Better” implies a standard, a judge, a ladder you’re supposed to climb. Stein, who made a life out of choosing her own criteria - in art, in love, in community - refuses that script. “Older” arrives without apology, then gets braided to “pleasure,” an audacious pairing in a culture that treats aging (especially for women) as either tragedy or invisibility. She doesn’t claim aging makes you wiser or purer. She claims it makes you altered, and that alteration can be enjoyed.
Context matters: Stein lived through modernism’s break with inherited forms, and she helped stage that rupture from her Paris salon to her experiments in repetition and perception. “Different” is modernism’s mandate, but she makes it intimate. The line reads like a manifesto for creative longevity: don’t chase improvement as if you’re a product; let time estrange you from your earlier self. The pleasure is not in arriving. It’s in becoming harder to summarize.
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| Topic | Aging |
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Stein, Gertrude. (2026, January 18). One does not get better but different and older and that is always a pleasure. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-does-not-get-better-but-different-and-older-7347/
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Stein, Gertrude. "One does not get better but different and older and that is always a pleasure." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-does-not-get-better-but-different-and-older-7347/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One does not get better but different and older and that is always a pleasure." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-does-not-get-better-but-different-and-older-7347/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









